hypocritical

Recently I got apprehended for smoking a cig in front of some people on the praise team at my church. I take full responsibility for making such a bad decision. What I do not agree with is being told that I gave someone a cig and that I am a bad influence on this person. This does not make sense to me because I did not hand this person a cig and say smoke this even though I know its not good for you. No the person asked for one and who am I to say no to anyone who smokes. It is a person's lifestyle choice. The other thing that crossed my mind as I was being apprehended was I couldn't actually believe that these people actually told on what happened to my pastor. It is not understandable to me on being yelled at in front of the whole church because of one cig. It is not like I robbed someone or hit someone at church but no I apparently gave a cig to someone who smokes and because of that I am a bad person. I was also told I was to never speak or aknowledge the person I was with because I was a bad influence. Im sorry but thats something that is unreasonable. How can you tell me to end a friendship with someone over one cig. The other thing is I know that not everyone is perfect at our church. I know im not. So before you tell on someone take a deep look at yourselves before you judge others.

Who are you to judge. You people wake up everyday with a fake aura of self-righteousness. Just know that everyone has dirty secrets. It is only the hypocrites who take these secrets and spread them around while harboring their own secrets.

A hypocrite despises those whom he deceives, but has no respect for himself. He would make a dupe of himself too, if he could. - William Hazlitt